Got told today that if I don't start trying to make another baby and give Henry a sibling I'll be a bad parent and he will be a spoiled brat who gets everything he wants because he's an only child....
1. Uuuhhhm..Excuse you, it's not your place to tell me when to have children, or how many I need to have.
2. I've seen first hand how kids behave when you give them whatever they want , the second they ask for it. I will not be raising my son to act that way. Yes, he will get spoiled here and there. But he'll also know that not everything in life is going to be handed to him. He'll have earn the things he wants.
3. You don't even have kids! You can't tell me what to do with mine when you've got zero experience even babysitting a child. Swerve right the hell out of here child.
Sorry! Rant over! Tired of people telling me I need to have another baby already. My sons not even 5 months old yet. And we haven't decided when or even if we want more children. Just sick of it all.
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As an only child, I can say it's not guaranteed that an only child will be a spoiled brat. You can have one kid and still teach them everything they need to know (from respect, that they won't always get what they want, to how to be a good person, etc) so that person is absolutely ridiculous.
No one has the right to tell you how many kids you should have. (My mum tried telling me I should only have one. She's no longer in my life.)
Anyone who doesn't have kids of their own really shouldn't be putting in their 2 cents anyway.
i was an only child and the only thing i hated was being so sheltered but i definitely wasn't spoiled. i grew learning to appreciate what i have