A mother instinct is true. You don't adapt you just DO. Some fathers underestimate how much work is in a mother role. Some mother don't work. Some may do other things such a being a full time college student like myself. Since your not working there isn't a reason for you to be tired. I've heard you wouldn't last a day in my shoes and pay all the bills. But you wouldn't last a hour in mines. I'm a full time college student. I have to juggle studying, school, cleaning, cooking(sometimes) and dealing with a needy infant, and lack of sleep. You work a full time job, you come home, you can rest with out interruptions and get up and do it all over again. Sometimes have the audacity to say your to tired to spend a couple hours with your child. While me over here running on a few hours of sleep, sometime none when my baby is cranky. Even when he is sleepy I have to catch up on school work. Ladies if your child father helps you and see your worth as a mom your lucky.