Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Weight Gain What week are you and how much weight have you gained so far?
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
I am only on my 2nd trimester and I gained so much weight! 😭 Can you mommas tell me what’s like a normal weight gain to be expected, please.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I loveee to eat everything lmao. Bread macaroni chicken cutlets fried everything lol but thanks girl I'm trying to work on it soon as baby gets a little older !!❤
mommy boys·
Thank you ladies i appreciate all the input i will truly be using them
mommy boys·
@bria good luck with your new career my boyfriend is a trainer. But i love to snack so i need to cut back
mommy boys·
@dawnrose thats very good girly
dawn·
I was under my pre pregnancy weight..2wks pp... I breastfeed and only gained 23lbs
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I was fitting into some stuff around 8wks pp but since around New Years I've been working out again & eating healthier and I've definitely cut a lot of fat, and definitely built muscle. My back is crazy lol. It depends on your goals. I am trying to cut but am guilty of indulging a lot, but my goal is to indulge a little less, cut weight for like 3 wks and then go harder with weights and lifting. I'm trying to be a trainer tho so I know my ideas aren't realistic to everyone
mommy boys·
@rmreed really im definitely hoping i have no problem with breastfeeding then
Trisha Rice ·
Мама сына-младенца
@melindaflowers929, eh not really. I lost 50 lbs right before I had my son and I gained a few lbs right before I found out I was pregnant then I gained 70 lbs being pregnant so now I'm back at the beginning and not only that it's a lot harder to lose weight now Ive been dieting and exercising like crazy and my body is at like a freeze
mommy boys·
@bria how long did that take? Thats really good news
mommy boys·
@trice4990 i hope i can be so lucky...thats really good
Trisha Rice ·
Мама сына-младенца
I dropped 40 lbs the first month from breast feeding and then when I got on birth control I gained 16 and now after 7 months I started dieting and exercising and Ive lost 14 lbs, 4 inches on my waist and 3 inches on my hips
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
Gotta change your diet & exercise. Breastfeeding helps (i formula feed though) I'm back in all my pre pregnancy clothes, my hips are wider from pregnancy but other than that I'm almost back completely !
Rachel·
Just depends on your body!
Rachel·
I breastfed and within the first week dropped 36.8 lbs
mommy boys·
Okay did u gave to change how u ate