Hi, I am just now going through with a lawyer so my husband can adopt my oldest. Being that I left my sperm donor 6 years ago, bc he was abusive. Should I tell the lawyer he didn't want nothing to do with her since I was pregnant and still does nothing for her. I don't trust him at all. His family is sick. They sleep with family members and I don't want that around her confuse my lil girl about incest people. It's nasty and not normal! I am so lost and confused by the situation. Can yall give me advice and not bash me please.