How do you moms deal with mean 3 year olds!?! Ive completely lost it with my son! One of his major tantrums today was from me telling him to not flush the toilet 4X in a row when it was empty. I gave him a small swat on the butt and he just stood there and glared at me with no reaction! He did this yesterday too when I said no candy while I was cooking dinner. I'm at a loss!! Time outs aren't working either. He's usually so sweet! My heart is broken from his actions. What do I do??