Ok I really need some advice. My child's grandmother( her dads mom) just moved back from Nebraska and I guess she's bother by the fact that my daughter doesn't like her too well (probably cause she doesn't know her) and she blames me for it because I didn't want to send my child who wasn't even 1 yet to Nebraska for , not a week, but a MONTH OR 2 😒but instead of trying to get her more often since she lives closer now she wanted to get in her feelings and not come around for a couple weeks and now out the blue she expects me to let her get my child for 2 weeks straight. I don't wanna be a bitch be that's just too long to be away from my child. I just wanted to know was I in the wrong in any way? Anytime she's asked to get her I've let her but I just don't feel comfortable throwing my child off to someone she barely knows for 2 whole weeks.
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Can you suggest starting with a weekend and work up to longer stays?
Oh hell no that's all I gotta say. Who cares if she's mad if I was you I would never! I would be so worried that my son would be scared because he didn't know where he was or who he was with . Nope never
Girl no. My mother in law is the same way but except she has temporary custody of my son which is driving me completely crazy because every time I wanna go visit my son, this bitch act like she don't want me to see my son. And then every time I call and check on him, she don't even answer the damn phone. Girl you are not in the wrong.
Thanks ladies i feel so much better knowing I'm not the only one who feels like what she's asking for is too much. 2 weeks is too long even if she knew her well. Like she's my first child my life kinda revolves around her. I don't need a 2 week break. Had she asked for her for the weekend it wouldn't be as bad but a week is too long especially knowing my baby isn't comfortable around her like she literally cries the entire time she's around her.