I don't know how to start this is embarrassing. I have 2 children with my now ex boyfriend, since he left literally 2 days ago. I became pregnant in December, it was unplanned. It turns out he has been cheating on me since the end of October with a new girl coworker who he met just then. I'm pretty devastated and angry at him but also at her because she knows that he has a family but she doesn't care. And I don't understand how some people can destroy families. And it feels unfair how he can just drop us and leave like nothing. Just for some easy "fun." And I say easy because I saw the naked photos she sent to his phone and text conversations between them. He kept denying everything. And from what I read, and the conversation between them, just hours after he left me and our kids. Was "Hey I left her" and she was inviting him over. And since he has no family or other place to go it looks like she's going to take him in at her friend's apartment where she's staying. They also, once again, work together. And they just met. I don't know if her age makes a difference she's 19 or 20. I'm going to be 26 this year and he's 23. I've known him for 4 years. Idk what else to say I'm just extremely sad.
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I feel horrible for you. I already went through a divorce because my ex had a lust problem. He was entertaining other women while trying to maintain a marriage. Even tho he loved me he couldn't control his addiction. And I couldn't live with that. We have two children together too. The other woman obviously has no morals coming between a couple, a family. I'm sorry that he's not making better choices. He may try to come back to you if things go south with them. He should try to contact the children at some point and he'll probably expect you to be needy and missing him. Stay strong, I know it's hard.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Lots of hugs to you. ❤
He is pathetic!!! I am very sorry for what is happening. Do not let it bring you down though. You have you beautiful babies to worry about. He's made his choice - abandoned you and his children. There's nothing you can do. Do not blame the other woman -feel sorry for her. She's got herself a stray dog! @patsycastle
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Im sorry you're going through this. I was in a really bad relationship and also was in similar situation like yours. He kept involving himself with another girl. She did not care that we were living together, that we were married had a baby! No morals or respect. You pay for everything life, remember that. You need to be strong, put your kids first and do everything you can to move forward.