Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I don't know how to start this is embarrassing. I have 2 children with my now ex boyfriend, since he left literally 2…

I don't know how to start this is embarrassing. I have 2 children with my now ex boyfriend, since he left literally 2 days ago. I became pregnant in December, it was unplanned. It turns out he has been cheating on me since the end of October with a new girl coworker who he met just then. I'm pretty devastated and angry at him but also at her because she knows that he has a family but she doesn't care. And I don't understand how some people can destroy families. And it feels unfair how he can just drop us and leave like nothing. Just for some easy "fun." And I say easy because I saw the naked photos she sent to his phone and text conversations between them. He kept denying everything. And from what I read, and the conversation between them, just hours after he left me and our kids. Was "Hey I left her" and she was inviting him over. And since he has no family or other place to go it looks like she's going to take him in at her friend's apartment where she's staying. They also, once again, work together. And they just met. I don't know if her age makes a difference she's 19 or 20. I'm going to be 26 this year and he's 23. I've known him for 4 years. Idk what else to say I'm just extremely sad.

Im sorry you're going through this. I was in a really bad relationship and also was in similar situation like yours. He kept involving himself with another girl. She did not care that we were living together, that we were married had a baby! No morals or respect. You pay for everything life, remember that. You need to be strong, put your kids first and do everything you can to move forward.

Patsy 14.02.2017

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Thank you :(

Marilu13.02.2017

Мама троих детей

I feel horrible for you. I already went through a divorce because my ex had a lust problem. He was entertaining other women while trying to maintain a marriage. Even tho he loved me he couldn't control his addiction. And I couldn't live with that. We have two children together too. The other woman obviously has no morals coming between a couple, a family. I'm sorry that he's not making better choices. He may try to come back to you if things go south with them. He should try to contact the children at some point and he'll probably expect you to be needy and missing him. Stay strong, I know it's hard.

Jes Linville13.02.2017

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Lots of hugs to you. ❤

IS13.02.2017

Мама двоих (младенец)

He is pathetic!!! I am very sorry for what is happening. Do not let it bring you down though. You have you beautiful babies to worry about. He's made his choice - abandoned you and his children. There's nothing you can do. Do not blame the other woman -feel sorry for her. She's got herself a stray dog! @patsycastle

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

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Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And…

Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?