Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
My mom's trying to convince me to let her into the delivery room with us, but I honestly just want it to be my boyfriend and I. And it doesn't even have anything to do with how shitty my mom has been this entire pregnancy, I just feel that this is our child, I want it to be just something that we experience. Plus, I feel it'll be a lot less stressful if only my boyfriend is there. But my god, she's trying to make me feel guilty and I'm about to snap 🙄
So I live with my mom and I'll be 19 this month. My boyfriend also lives with me and we have a 1 year old daughter together. So my mom just told me I'm not allowed to file taxes because I live with her and that she's claiming me and my daughter. I worked from may - December and at one point had 3 jobs but she's saying because I don't live in my own house I can't file. I think she's trying to screw me over to get more money. She says I was a full time student LAST year and she can claim me, but I only went end of January - June and I worked may - December. I provide everything for my daughter (her dad works as well) and we pay my mom around $250-300 a month in rent although she has hud and gets free rent. The tax money was what we planned on using to move but now she's trying to ruin it..... someone please help! I'm in CA if that makes a difference
Deborah
Geez I'm sorry! That's so hard to deal with! And yeah unfortunately only exploding on people and putting a heavy heavy foot down is the way and I'm trying my best not to but it's about to come down to it.. I've stated things nicely a lot since he's been born and that has gotten me to where I am today!
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