My future mother in law gave my son water in front of me last night at dinner. (In front of everyone) we have told her we want to clear it with the pediatrician and to ask to start stuff like that since my fiancé and I are new parents. She has also let my 8 month old try gum and her husband has given him ice cream and chocolate behind my back and without consent. What do I do? We live with them and I am trying to not go off but after almost a year of living there it is eating me alive that no on...