So my one month old has a lip tie and I'm not sure if it is affecting his latch but breastfeeding is excrutiating. It burns and feels like he's biting me. But then I've heard a lot of people say they feel the burning and pain but it eventually goes away. Is that common to feel? Also, got a nipple shield to try and help. Anyone have any experience with those? Please help, don't want to give up!!
Nipple shield worked wonder for both mine. As far as the biting sensation it could be cracked nipples or that he only has your nipple in his mouth. I remember that being excruciating. For cracked nipples, lanolin on your breast pads = 1000x better than applying directly to nipples imo
@boymom19, don't be scared! When we got the ties cut, I let my husband hold her cause I just couldn't do it. I also closed my eyes. I brought a bottle to comfort her right after. But, it was a quick process and my lil princess got over it quickly. Thank God!
@mitchy.rice I think I'm going to ask our ped at his appointment this week for a referral to see about getting his cut. I'm terrified because I don't want him in pain but I think they will be better in the long run
My daughter had a tongue tie and lip tie and breastfeeding was very painful at the start. I also used a nipple shield, which did help to alleviate some pain. I decided to get both ties cut. Eventually, breastfeeding got better. Baby and I worked together--I went to a lactation consultant, provided by our birth center, and learned an easier way to latch baby, and baby also got better at latching. I would still have painful moments here and there, but breastfeeding got better and better overall. I also learned that it was best to unlatch her when there was pain and re-latch her.
She cried a lot :( but I think mostly because they had all their fingers in her tiny mouth. The dentist said to expect them to be fussy for the next week or so. But from what I see that heart shape does mean it could be a tongue tie. Good luck at your doctor and let us know what you find out
@gellymoon did it seem to bother her? I don't see the obvious lip tie but the shape of his tongue tipped me off so I googled it and other people say their lo's had tongues like that and they are tied
I will keep you posted! She had an anterior one so I never would've noticed. We actually got the procedure done at a dentist office and was in and out in an hour.
@gellymoon I'm wondering if my son has a tongue tie too, his tongue is heart shaped on the tip, it reminds me of a snake tongue. Please keep me posted how latching goes for you now, going to see his ped on Wednesday and going to ask for a referral for an ent appt
I felt it in the very beginning and my daughter has a lip/tongue tie. The nipple shield made it go away but I think it only masked the problem. I just got her lip/tongue tie fixed today so I will see what happens now. Work with a lactation consultant to see if they can help you though! They are golden!
@boymom19 I tried the nipple shield when I first started. A lactation nurse put it on for me but it was hard to do put it on myself once I got home so i.stopped using it. I felt it wasn't really doing much for me