So after such a traumatic labor I went through, I have a low sex drive and it's been almost three months after Dean was…

I've been feeling the same for over a year now. I know how u r feeling. I pray he can understand your emotions my ex didn't understand until now. I was cut and had to deliver my bday during a c-section. So I was hurting every angle. I hope he can understand.

Poor thing, i pray he comes to understand. Its not easy to have our bodies treated that way and to just be able and bounce back is out of the question. My previous pregnancy before my son i lost the baby they had to give me a d&c while i was awake. They didnt numb me all the way i felt everything! Including the focing of my cervix opening and them succtioning etc i wont go into further detail. Point is we need to be able to be intimate again in our own timing. He needs to understand your not purposely avoiding pleasing him. You have a small amount of ptsd and still some discomfort