So after such a traumatic labor I went through, I have a low sex drive and it's been almost three months after Dean was born. My husband is getting frustrated that he can't touch me without me being uncomfortable or in pain. We tried having sex two weeks ago but I had to stop. I feel the way they stitched my vagina back up is preventing me from being intimate with my husband. Along with the anxiety I have from when forceps were shoved inside me wrong three times during labor and I'm just not ready. But he feels like I'm neglecting him. Because when we have alone times I want to sleep or clean. I'm more annoyed because I want him to understand I am not ready, physically and mentally.
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Poor thing, i pray he comes to understand. Its not easy to have our bodies treated that way and to just be able and bounce back is out of the question. My previous pregnancy before my son i lost the baby they had to give me a d&c while i was awake. They didnt numb me all the way i felt everything! Including the focing of my cervix opening and them succtioning etc i wont go into further detail. Point is we need to be able to be intimate again in our own timing. He needs to understand your not purposely avoiding pleasing him. You have a small amount of ptsd and still some discomfort
Thanks for all the ❤️ guys! I think I'm in shock! Labor story in a bit I'm being attacked with visitors lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
i need ways on inducing labor without having sex cause my baby daddy wont do me
My husband won't give me sex.... 😭😂😭🤣 the nurse at the hospital said that sex could make me go into labor and if that happens then it could kill me because of all my problems, but I want sex! I haven't been able to have sex in 2 weeks already and now I can't till after I'm healed from my surgery... ugh
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
I've been feeling the same for over a year now. I know how u r feeling. I pray he can understand your emotions my ex didn't understand until now. I was cut and had to deliver my bday during a c-section. So I was hurting every angle. I hope he can understand.