So after such a traumatic labor I went through, I have a low sex drive and it's been almost three months after Dean was born. My husband is getting frustrated that he can't touch me without me being uncomfortable or in pain. We tried having sex two weeks ago but I had to stop. I feel the way they stitched my vagina back up is preventing me from being intimate with my husband. Along with the anxiety I have from when forceps were shoved inside me wrong three times during labor and I'm just not ready. But he feels like I'm neglecting him. Because when we have alone times I want to sleep or clean. I'm more annoyed because I want him to understand I am not ready, physically and mentally.