I just cannot understand why my husband is so mad at me for not reacting to him almost being shot…

I just cannot understand why my husband is so mad at me for not reacting to him almost being shot our home accidently by his friend, the way he thinks I should have reacted...

when this happened I was at work and our children were inside. while him and his friend were in the garage. (I Had asked his friend not to bring his gun to my house again after the first time, Because I was afraid something like this would happen)..

I was super upset, angry, sad, felt betrayed, scared, and numerous other feelings. I felt like I had to be strong, but was super pissed at him and his friend for not respecting my wishes.

I showed no emotions and was more worried about my kids than my husband even though the he almost got shot, because they are in the next room. I couldn't stop playing the what ifs in my head..

I didn't cry or show any emotion until I went to work the next day and was away from husband and children. I cried for what seemed like forever.

today my husband told me, the reason he had been so distant from me the past week was becAuse I didn't care about him like he wished I did. that I did not comfort him at the time he needed comfort. but In reality I cared so much and was such a wreck it would have made things worse had be seen my true emotion...

I'm sorry for this long rant. but really had nobody else to open up about my feelings, and had to let it off my chest..