Today I called my oldest daughter on face time. For reasons my older three children are in foster care with their aunt. A couple years ago their dad died from suicide. Well my oldest knows he's dead and gone and personally believe that age five is too young to tell her that he's dead. She asked me if I missed daddy and I said sweetie I will always miss him and she said but he's dead. And to me grief at this age is more of an adult issue or at least more mature for her age. The aunt was their daddy's sister and I feel as if she is forcing my five year old to deal with issues that are too advanced for her young mind to cope with and I'm so worried that she is causing more harm then good when it comes to my oldest daughters mental health. Please help me. I am falling apart right now.