I'm just so overwhelmed by everything and everyone. Apparently I'm always doing something "wrong"…

bitch slap all of 'em

fuck I wish I could, round house kick everyone in the head @arivera64

I hope it gets better for you. You're doing a great job.

You're doing a great job.

you're doing great! tell them all your the fucking mom and to back tf off

we didn't get our son cut either and the fact that he won't look like his dad doesn't matter because he won't be seeing his dad naked anyway! people suck. keep your chin up momma, you're doing wonderful, from one new momma to another 💙

1st of all, take a break you deserve it! You're doing wonderful

2nd of all I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR KEEPING YOUR BOY INTACT💙 my family and my boyfriends family judges me for it too so I know how that is... and not getting help at home either. My boyfriend will take him for 2 seconds and then when he cries he will hand him right back. The only one who will help is my mom and she loves far away.

3 I'm here if you need to talk more momma 💙you can add me on Facebook since I don't have a number you can text at the moment

thank you everyone, just gotta deal with everything one at a time @arivera64 @nomaci @dawnrose @j_kam75

Try to do the resting while he sleeps if not no one will help if he's awake.

my family is very against it, but his family is all for it. so when I told my mil we didn't cut she was mad because apparently he's going to be dirty.

I don't expect my bf to take him on nights when he has to work, but everyone offers to watch him or help me out and they won't even change a diaper so it's like what's the point. @bekaxbunnie

this is your baby and you get to decide what's best. I think your doing a fine job!

everyone has their own beliefs on cutting. and that's a parents choice, I know Im only a few weeks in and I want to sleep my life away and I want to quit my job. my job is great im just always tired and I don't know how I'm going to manage most days. but you'll do fine 👍 you're a mommy now. they'll get used to it.

@jsco, yea I know how that is. They think I'm dumb but they're the ones who didn't research and I have to tell them every time not to retract him if they change his diaper because they aren't informed. It's not dirty, it's natural.. it's also none of their business but it always get brought up by somebody 🙄 anyway you're doing a great job! And my boyfriend won't even change diapers. My son is 2 months old tomorrow

@jsco, the day I brought him home I changed his diaper in the living room and my brother goes "you didn't get him circumcised?" And I said no and he was like "when are you going to?" I said "uh never" 😳

Your son's penis is literally no one's business. My son is circumcised and I regretted it immediately. I regretted it as soon as I signed the consent forms. It was important to his dad that it be done and now his dad isn't even in his life and I feel like a monster. I'll always regret it. Their opinion would never justify you feeing that way. You do what's best for your family, not everyone else. You're doing great. Having a newborn is really hard, and when people seem like they're out to make it harder, it's incredibly frustrating and heartbreaking. You've got this. You and your boy are all that matter, fuck the rest 💕

it seems like in laws like to critize the women. probably becuase you took their baby boy from them so theyre using your baby maybe for revenge. ugg. i hate that.