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Jessica Whitaker
Jessica Whitaker
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My baby is barely kicking, I did all I could that people listed for her to be active but nothing. She barely kicked 3…

My baby is barely kicking, I did all I could that people listed for her to be active but nothing. She barely kicked 3 times out of the whole day. Should I call my OB right away?

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

and when they call for a interview explain your situation and most likely you will get approved because you are barely making it with just food stamps alone @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

Go on the website tomorrow and apply for it. it won't hurt to try @jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

oh ok. I don't think I signed up for tanf..I didn't know what that was. I was more focused on foodstamps

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

you should go on their website and apply for tanf to see if you qualify which you should be able to qualify for it @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

you know when you go to the store and you go to buy your items with your food stamps card and it says food or cash. the cash part of for cash assistance

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luceromommy

StephanieМама дочки (6 лет), беременна (38 нед.)

Ask your worker. I don't know if they have it in Texas

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

It's called tanf here in Texas it's where you get cash assistance that helps with food, clothing , and other things and they put it on your food stamps card

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

I don't know what cash aid is.. @leahsmommi

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luceromommy

StephanieМама дочки (6 лет), беременна (38 нед.)

They don't have cash aid there??? @jerin, or do you get it?

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

I went to a soup kitchen once and they didn't ask any questions @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

look up a soup kitchen near you and see if they do breakfast and lunch and try to go so you can get something to eat twice a day at least @jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

only when I was little

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

have u ever been to a soup kitchen ? @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

look up soup kitchens in your area. they serve lunch everyday @jerin

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b3autifulm3ss

MichelleМама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@jerin fyi, like i said i wasnt trying to be rude or say im better than you in any way i was posing a question 🖒👌 ive been in really shitty situations and have done my best to survive too sweetheart... i know im lucky to have the life i do now... food banks help a lot and womens aid help too... make sure to get some BC lined up 😂🖒✌

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

you are more then welcome @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

I qualified for wic and food stamps with my income which is helping a lot so you can get help as well @jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

Thank you so much @firsttimemommy84 for helping all you can. I do appreciate it alot!!!

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

you will be able to get food for yourself until your baby comes then when ur baby comes it will be for the baby and maybe a little bit for you

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

@b3autifulm3ss my SO lost his job and hasn't had a job in almost 4 months in my pregnancy and he barely got one finally but our water pipes and water heater broke/busted so his checks goes to fixing that along with rent which we have to pay twice a month. Not everyone is in middle class and not everyone has everything they need when life seems good. Sometimes life happens and we have to take risks and survive the best we can

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

if you are on medicaid for pregnant women you will get wic and plus they will see that you are barely surviving on ur bf's income @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

keep on calling wic and get a appointment @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

I've been in those shoes where I barely had any food to eat and I went a whole day without anything and this was last summer when I didn't even know I was pregnant and I believe I was about month pregnant @jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

They said they would get back to me. I've been calling. I'm at the point I have to go down there again

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b3autifulm3ss

MichelleМама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@jerin i dont mean to be rude but how are you going to be able to take care of a child if you dont have money for food? even if you breastfeed, you have to have food to keep ur supply up... 😐

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

have you tried to get on wic ?@jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

I don't have a car let alone money to do so @firsttimemommy84 I'm barely surviving off of foodstamps and what my SO can scrape from his check for food for the house which is like $20

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deborahcakez22

Deborah LamarМама троих детей

call l&d honey

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

have u been to any food pantries in your area to get food ?@jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

I don't. all I have in my kitchen is water and chicken and crackers thats literally it

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

do u have any candy or anything sweet to eat ? @jerin

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

Thank you to all!!!

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

ok thank you!

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

put ice in it @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

Drink really cold water and lay on ur left side

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

all I have is water. I don't have much until foodstamps comes in

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

or something sweet if you don't have orange juice @jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

@jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

Drink a tall glass of orange juice and lay on your left side for a few mins to see if you get any movements @

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j_erin

Jessica WhitakerВ ожидании первенца

I drank water all day today

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

Are you drinking plenty of water ?@jerin

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firsttimemommy84

MeganВ ожидании первенца

Go to l&d and they will hook you up to the monitors to check the babies heartbeat and monitor you as well @jerin

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?