So I paid 100 dollars to find out the sex early out of my pocket. Side note my SO doesn't work and hasn't worked in a while now and his psycho mother said it's my job to work while he sits at home but anyways I told them I wanna FaceTime my mom so she can be apart of the gender reveal and they flipped out because they never want my family involved and said fuck me and everything and told me to walk my ass to work.... I'm so tired of this
You and your LO are more important than they are. Do you and what's best for the babe. Stress can hurt you and the baby
But the yelling and screaming I can't deal with... I don't want my daughter growing up thinking is okay to be treated this way. I'm just so scared of her and just wanna go back to tx with my family
Urrr... if you were a close friend to me my biggest word of advice would be to get out of there. Get on your state's cash aid program, try to get into low income housing if you're not financially stable (not assuming, I just know it's hard on one income), and get a place for you and your kiddos. I don't see what the point of staying is if your partner doesn't take your side, stand up for you, or even try... why put up with that? I wouldn't say don't be with him- I know it's important for people to have their children's father involved, but just from he outside and the little bit of info you gave me, it doesn't seem like anyone cares about your physical, emotional, or mental health && what you need is support. If your mom will be excited for the gender of he baby you should tell her. Surround yourself with those who love you.
Yes because she won't let us move out and he takes his moms side every single time... she is sitting across the room talking shit about me like I'm not even here @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom,
Are you staying with his family? F it, I would just tell your mom before everyone else finds out if they want to be petty like that. Don't put up with their crap. Enjoy your pregnancy and don't let your partner's family ruin the excitement for you!
With them it doesn't work that way..... I walked my ass to work even tho I'm a high risk pregnancy and they are still talking shit about me and I have still yet to open the envelope and his mother keeps popping off at me. @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom,
Leave far away