about to have a mental break down bc im the only one whos being a adult bc someone is too stuck in his games now im hurting bc i have to get bills down cook dinner keep the cat from attacking and tripping me and keep the cat out of the trash why he just plays games the house is a mess and im stressing out
@elfghostqueen @ivette15martinez unfortunately once a gamer always a gamer... my husband is a gamer, was when I got with him so i wouldnt expect anything less but you definitely have to set up some ground rules when it comes to the games or you will just build up resentment and lose your mind
@ivette15martinez my mother will be moving me back home if thats how it will be
I just hope when the baby comes he doesn't do what hes doing now or else that xbox is going out the window lol
It's a balancing act they need to learn. My bf was/is a gamer. Thank God he eased off on it when I had the baby. The only reason he did is cause I had enough one day and sat him down and talked to him about my worries. While pregnant I told him how scared I was that he would neglect me as well as our newborn. That I didn't wanna do it all my own. I told him to get it out of his system before little man got here because if he put games over him I'd move back in with my mom and he'd have controlled visits. He didn't like that idea at all, and straightened up after I had the baby. Little man is almost two weeks and the only reason he plays games now is cause he's contagiously sick. Plus, I gave him permission cause I didn't want him to be bored when awake. He's already turn cause he can't hold his son.