Single Mamas: Do your children's fathers help financially and if so how do you determine how much of their needs (home, hygiene, food, clothes, medical, childcare, transportation) they need to help with? We have a child support order but for 2 children he only pays 120... and I'm workin like a mad woman to cover it all.. It's just not right. He's asking for a financial breakdown of what i pay every month for them - like dude.. what do you pay for yourself every month!! Now times that by 2! Grrrrr