We live in the same city 😊

I live close to you and I'm a SAHM. I'm only 19 miles from Louisville. We just moved 6 months ago and I have no friends close either

@dimples yeah I use to use smile mom & somthing online I can't remember, had to much momma shaming. my daughter is my first she'll be 5 come the 30th.

@brendasue502

really ? i jus got bored and looked up mom apps . lol i love babies and learning new things cause im a first time mom ...my daughter is 2...so im like interesting i love this app tho.

@dimples hey girl! did you really? oh wow, yeah I just found this app through a fb ad lol

@hannahcamill3

I'm sorry. it seems be somthing we all get to struggle with.

@brendasue502 hey girl , thought my time wuld never come lol. i use to live down there by you . i wish i would have found this app sooner

@dimples here I am! Lol :)

@brbsmomma Thanks!

I have started experiencing that since I became pregnant. I definitely feel more lonely.

I have to go donate ladies. I'll reply back when I get done in few hour's!

Believe me. My family started going to church and they love to brag about problems in hopes they get free stuff. Apparently to my mom, me being pregnant at 18 is a huge problem. My siblings don't want anything to do with me. When I visit or babysit them to help mom out, the people from church find out about my visitation and demand to sit me down and ask me questions about if it was a willing predicament. Trying to get me to say i was raped by my boyfriend then getting pregnant. Apparently it is a sin to become a mother so early. Which is funny because in some culturals as well as back in the day it was customary to get pregnant and married young and stuff. What's worse is that my mom doesn't care what is said towards me. My brother could say I should think about abortion so my life isn't screwed up more than it already is. And my mom would laugh and walk off. All I have now to make me feel somewhat better is this app. Sure it's not making friends in public and it's wishful thinking but at least im not being shamed about my baby and there's no negativity about me. There's help here if needed. I mean. This is the only app where I can relate to other moms or mom to be instead of crying my eyes out because those I know want to be mean and disgusting towards me. it's bad enough my boyfriend doesn't want to understand how stressful this is for me. It's my first pregnancy and I'm excited and scared. I need someone to be there for me when he won't. It's frustrating

@jerin that sucks, I'm sorry. I know the feeling though when I was pregnant it was like everyone was afraid to be around me like they'd catch "pregnancy " Omg! Then to add to it my family was big in church so EVERYONE frowned upon me and whispered behind my back because I was not married and pregnant at 19. people don't seem to care.

I did get to go to gen con with my bf and his friends last August... that's most fun I've had in years. but his friends dropped him now I feel bad :( . I'm sorry your stuck at his place alone though at least I have some family.

nope , every since i had my daughter in 2014 got pregnant all my friends disappeared. im still like any day now., can somebody real walk into my life...like one friend would even be cool with me .@brendasue502

@brendasue502, just lucky this guy has known me since I was 8 years old cause I totally get that most guys are creeper status! Lol I would totally be you friend! You're a little far from me but I'm always available via message😢

@brbsmomma

you found one of the few then, every guy is just so....guy- ish lol starts out ok but always ends up asking for pictures 😣😖😡

is nice to know I'm not alone is this struggle though.

All my friends who I've known for years has dropped me like nothing. I get it...It hurts and it sucks. There's times I would try to say hi and hope to keep a conversation going but they read it and never reply. I feel like chopped liver always. Worst feeling in the world. Apparently getting pregnant is like a bad attitude towards people who don't want to deal with it or get involved or want to even speak of it about you unless it's something negative they totally want to gossip about. Ever since I found out I was going to be a mother everyone I knew distanced themselves from me and since then I've been cooped up in my boyfriend's house with literally no one to talk to or hang out with. Every day my conversations are only with him while he keeps his friends and goes out after work to chill. I'm stuck at home with nothing to watch on t.v, nothing to do at all but sit around letting time waste and slipping into loneliness. It's boring..just absolutely boring

Nope. I literally have one friend and we only converse over messages cause he understands how life can be, even though he doesn't have children. It will get better, you just need a new type of friend that gets the momma struggle