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samantha townsend
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I just want to feel like I'm doing things right. My husbands sister and mother tell me 24/7 that I spoil/pamper my son…

I just want to feel like I'm doing things right. My husbands sister and mother tell me 24/7 that I spoil/pamper my son from day one

HEIS ONLY 3 MONTHS OLD!!!!!

I tell them that I'm not spoiling him and even if I am it's my child and I'm gonna cuddle and love on him as much as I want to and he needs I'm home alone all night until my husband come home from work and he is asleep during the day and all they have to say I'm not mothering my child right. It's already hard being a first time stay at home mommy, I don't feel like I should be yelled at for how I'm parenting. my son will wake up screaming in the middle of the night like he is having a nightmare so I started letting him sleep on my chest to calm him down they have no right to comment on my parenting after what they have done the think bc it's my first child I can't handle it his family has came in my house and striped him and re did his bottle and that's not even the beginning I'm at my wits end I had to call the cops the last time he visted I'm sorry if i keep ranting about it but it still pisses me off know she's calling and is up to something I Can feel it rant over!!!!

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samanthagreen9691

samantha townsendМама сына-младенца

Yes they are they said I put on the wrong thing @ladybug91 @cassienka thank you and I will ask him bc I'm tired of it

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cassienka

Cassie KirkМама сына (6 лет)

You do you mama! You shouldn't worry about him crying it out for at least another couple of months. You know better than anyone what's best for you kid. Stand your ground and ask your man for some help. If it's his family he should be defending your decisions as his wife and mother of his child.

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ladybug91

Natasha ☠️🤘🏼Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)

I'm not getting why they would strip him. Poor baby is probably cold. Their assholes!

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samanthagreen9691

samantha townsendМама сына-младенца

@lizabeth.1294 he has a night light his family has sleep paralysis I was worried because how he looked when he woke up @lizabeth.1294 @heyjeremiahsmommy129 thank you I feel better

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lizabeth.1294

Ariel Bruce Мама дочки-младенца

You know what's best for your baby. Your momma you know your little one better than anyone! Also on the baby waking up screaming my daughter did that for awhile and we tried a night light, totally worked. She HATES the dark!

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heyjeremiahsmommy129

charlene christianМама сына-младенца

Oh please i dont let my son cry his lungs out... he is a BABY... a young baby at that... keep doing what you are doing you are doing a GREAT JOB!!! from one new stay at home mom to another ☺️☺️☺️💙

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samanthagreen9691

samantha townsendМама сына-младенца

thank you I needed to hear that i though that was so ridiculous they said I should let him cry it out

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mdomke22

MelМама двоих (младенец)

you cannot spoil a baby at 3 months. keep doing what your doing mama! baby's need to know they can count on their moms and feel secure with them. I'd say your doing GREAT!

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