Something I will never ever, EVER put up with is violence in a relationship. Luckily my OH knows he'd be better off dead if he ever laid a hand on me or hurt me physically in any kind of way apart from when we're mucking around/playfighting but if he ever was to then there is no way on this earth I'd stick around when we have a child in the equation. I'm sorry it's just something I don't agree with. If a man can physically cause harm to a woman, he isn't a man/ he's a coward and he should be left without a second thought. Too many people are happy to make excuses for it but there isn't 1 excuse you can give me that would justify it happening- bad upbringing, grew up around it etc. I've watched it first hand through someone really really close to me and it killed me watching her make the same shit excuses, trying to hide the bruises and the cuts, watching her shrink to nothing through stress, no sleep and not being able to eat, watching her bond with her child slowly deteriorate because all she could think about was that vile piece of shit that she thought the world of. Sorry this was a really random post, this picture just really made me think about it
#TellHimBOYbye
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He got 15 years if I remember. He tried to claim self defence. But he had phoned her mother that morning and told her he was going to kill her. He had just left prison and was staying there as she felt sorry for him. He had only been out a few weeks, but she had a one night stand before he left prison and fell pregnant. Was the reason he stabbed her. He stabbed her about 11 times and she tried to get out of her flat there was apparently blood everywhere in there hallway. The poor kids went to another friends house over the road and she said they were covered in blood splatters. Truly horrific .
@suzie80 I hope that man got put away til he dies! Those poor babies 😞
It's horrible isn't it, I'd leave at the first sign. I watched a family member who is also my best friend, go through it all. We didn't speak for nearly 3 years and there was absolutely nothing she'd let me do for her. She wouldn't listen to a word I had to say then one day she just snapped, something inside her finally made her realise that he wasn't shit. He pushed her up a hill doing 60 mph while she was trying to get away from him in her little 1.0l car, touching her bumper. It's such an evil subject @suzie80
My best friend a few years back was stabbed to death by her partner while she was pregnant in front of her two young children. I'll never forget the phone call to me from her cousin waking me up to tell me. I was with her most days, but we had a fall out 2 weeks before and she had been avoiding me as she had taken him back. Only two days before she drove past me looking sad, I will never forget that. Her poor children were moved up north to live with there grandmother.
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