Time to Heal: Loving in Agreement.👍👍💜💏💏👪
Many times after we have heeded God's command : Be fruitful and multiply we as mom's and wife's find ourselves empty. There are many reasons for this, but to we are just gonna talk intimacy. After baby sometimes many of us lose the "love". The baby is crying, water is boling, husband is questioning why the baby is cry while a standing there mindlessly not helping one bit, and suddenly amongst the chaos a bitter root sprouts. Questioning turns into arguing. Arguing turns into neglect and neglect turns into suspicion of infidelity.
I know.... This has nothing to do with you and will never happen to you. Please read in peace since I'm not talking about you.
Now let's rewind to emptiness. Do you remember the last time yall shared an inside joke? Do you remember the last time you kissed? Since baby it's feeling like roommates and not marriage.. Right.
I've been there.
I want to share something with you.
Give him and your self some grace and mercy. We as women are not the only ones who have emotions.
Having to guide another whole human life is a weighty responsibility no matter how many times you have done it. Give yourselves some grace and mercy.
Forgive his lack of mind reading and ask for forgiveness for your lack of mind reading.
Remember, complaining, nagging, whining, and crying is not communication. If you would not listen to your child do it why are you trying it?
God we thank you for agreement in marriage and relationships through you. We thank you for the wisdom to effectively communicate with our partners. We trust that when the time is right, through the unction of the Holy spirit we will know what to say. We praise you for the health of our familes, bodies, minds, and souls in the name of Jesus. Amen💑💑💑💏💏💏👫👪😍😍😍😇😇😇👐👐👐👐👏👏👏👏👍
Thank you @mommi5