Needing some advice on what to do... please don't pass judgement because I am a teen mom with 2 kids. I'm living
With my boyfriend and his mom. But because we live in her house she seriously has to have a say in everything when it comes to my daughter's outfit, me and my boyfriends relationship, how I discipline my son, and ect. I work nights during the week and every other weekend so during the day I can be with the kids and not have to pay for day care. She expects the house to be spotless with having a 4 month old and a two year old. And she's all the time putting me down cause I don't cook dinner. Like she's getting to the point where I don't do anything right and I know it's her house so I never disrespect her or get smart with her because it's not my house. My boyfriend is staying neutral through all this never saying anything to her but he wants to wait it out till we can get our own place but I'm to the point to where I'm ready just to move back in with my parents and get on my own 2 feet by my self. Like do y'all know of any options I have not thought of...
This is the last place i have turned to. And I needed somewhere to vent. Lol
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I'd start talking to your BF about saving up for your own place.. You guys are your own family and need your own space.. Not at your mom's or his mom's but your own. To make your own rules, to know that some dys you just don't feel like picking up and it being ok...
okay, I swear it's the same with me. my fiance and I (and our one month old) live with his mom so we wouldn't have to pay much for rent and she could babysit while we work. but she feels as though she gets a say in everything! when he eats, when he wakes up, where we take him, what we do with him, she tries coming to his appointments, constantly tells us we're doing something wrong, and gets so mad when we don't do the stupidest things. (like clean the house, even though we do clean the house just about daily). we're trying to wait it out until we can get our own place but girl I feel this post so much lol.
That's what I was thinking and the reason why we picked his moms instead of my moms is cause she had more room my moms house was smaller. But at the point I'd be happier at my moms
If his mother is bothering you that much, I'd go back home. Your boyfriend should understand that. Why is it that you are "required" to stay there anyway. I'd go home, save up, and get my own place. If you guys want to get a place together I'd still love apart and save up until you can afford it.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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I would like to say it's great that you are working to provide for you kids & taking care of them. I would suggest you get yourself stable to provide that to your children. Go home, save $$ & get a place for you and your family.