Мама сына (2 года)

I have a question for people and I really hope I don't get bashed or put down because I have gone through enough... I…

I have a question for people and I really hope I don't get bashed or put down because I have gone through enough... I moved 1900 miles to get away from an abusive relationship. He doesn't know where I am but we have a son together. I never wanted to keep his son from him, but I tried everything to keep our family together so this wouldn't happen and it ended up with me and my son having police escorting us to a shelter, and me moving where I never dreamed I would so I can have support from family. My question is what should I do? He asks to see him all the time and wants to Skype. my son asks for his dad too. I'm trying to protect myself as much as possible, but I don't want him not in his life.. I'm scared what might happen if he does see him, because he has threatened to take him and disappear. . we don't have anything in place as far as custody. My friend says he is using the baby to control me again and I believe it too. Please don't judge because I have been through a lot with him in 4 and a half years.. I was diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety and Post Partum Depression.. He was the reason for most of it and I had to save myself. Just wondering if anyone has been through a similar situation and want to know what my next steps should be thank you.

I'm sorry for what your going through. :( I personally have never delt with an abusive relationship. But, my mom was always in abusive relationships and I saw what it did to her. Luckily, thats not the case anymore. However, as a child of a mother that was abused. I can say no child wants to see their parent being hurt in anyway shape or form Even if thats their own father. So my advice is to try and keep as much space between yourself and him. Until he goes to therapy and sorts out his shit. If he really wants to see/be apart of your child's life then he will seek help for his issues. If not then you know he's full of crap and he's using your child to control you. An thats a peice of shit kind of person you really don't want around your baby. I hope this helps :)

Kelsey17.01.2017

Мама дочки (1 год)

If you dont feel safe and you fear for your child, I wouldnt risk it personally... you obviously did what you had to in order to survive, dont take that away from tou or your son

Emily17.01.2017

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)

I would get a lawyer and get custody on paper first so he can't take your son before letting him see him or be with a lot of people when he sees him. I wouldn't trust him.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old.…

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

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Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my…

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