My MIL always has to be in control of everything.... I go the 19th to do blood work to find out the sex but gonna keep it a secret and then reveal but of course she wants to be in control and have the envelope and I said that I plan on revealing it the same day she started screaming at me and calling me names and starting so much shit and on top of it all my SO is still on her tit and takes her side every time even when I didn't do anything wrong.... fuck my life should of just stayed in Texas when I had the chance