My MIL always has to be in control of everything.... I go the 19th to do blood work to find out the sex but gonna keep it a secret and then reveal but of course she wants to be in control and have the envelope and I said that I plan on revealing it the same day she started screaming at me and calling me names and starting so much shit and on top of it all my SO is still on her tit and takes her side every time even when I didn't do anything wrong.... fuck my life should of just stayed in Texas when I had the chance
I am so sorry. you must be dealing with a super psycho! I am just wondering how the cops can stop you from leaving... @briannabdb
If I were to let them know they would call the cops I have already left 2 times the cops aren't gonna let me leave again I don't think you understand how crazy this woman is
if you feel threatened, yes you can. also, if you let them know where you are going, you are not sneaking out or "stealing" anyone's child. @briannabdb
no one can hold you against your will. if you choose to leave, no one can stop you. just saying
No her lazy ass stays home all day and doesn't do shit.... and even if I were to do that they would call the cops @momma13, and her dad is a cop
Is there a time of day they are both out of the house for a long period of time?
Yeah she just helped me so much and now I can't leave they won't let me leave @momma13,
If your daughter was in your situation what would you want her to do or what would you do? Just something to consider. If you get in a situation think about how you would feel if it was your child in the same situation. You'll usually find the right thing to do.
I left and went to my moms all the way in Texas 2 times and then I came back..... bad choice but love makes you do stupid shit... I feel like I won't b able to leave again this woman is crazy....
Are your parents available to help you? If it was me I wouldn't put up with either of them and move out. Some people need a real eye opener to see the problem.
We currently live with her because my SO is so up her ass and won't let us move out @momma13,
Just tell her if she wants to call all the shots then she can carry the baby and deliver it. Just have to be brutally straight with people like that. "This is NOT your baby, you do NOT get a say in how I do this. Keep on and you will NOT be apart of any of MY child's ultrasounds, parties, delivery, and so on." Put your foot down girl. You gotta go Momma Bear on her and your SO.
Because I'm in Kansas and my family is in Texas.... so there are certain guidelines... @concrete,