Okay so I posted pics in comments please tell you how it would make you feel. I feel so crappy about my body An the fiancé didn't really make it any better
Yeah, I understand. It sucks not feeling wanted. Maybe trying speaking about in person rather text? He'll see your emotions.
@mama_kay, yeah. But it's crappy when you have people that flirt with you yet your so doesn't even bother anymore I don't flirt back cause I just wouldn't do that. Just sad I see all these other men with there women an than there is me An him..
Girl, honestly, who cares if HE thinks you're sexy, do something to make YOURSELF feel sexy.
Trust me, he'll end up noticing.. I had the same talk with my boyfriend, his response wasn't what your husband said but he made a point that, no matter what, your body is beautiful & so are your tiger stripes (if you had any) so where them proud, no matter what. ☺️
@sk216, it sucks im a stay at home mom and it's like he doesn't appreciate what I do an than he gets home an acts like I'm not even there. I get a peck on the cheek when he leaves for work like ugh
@these.4walls, just makes me feel so crappy like we have been fighting but it's like I need love to it's like I don't exist An like he doesn't care half the time men are so ugh
Men think differently than we do babe and it's hard for us to have sex when we don't feel wanted sexy or beautiful I know, don't be so down on yourself and if it makes you feel better to try don't stop on account of him
this is probably one of the hardest things to adjust to after having a baby. every aspect of everything changes. before the baby my so and i had a very active sex life. after the baby its almost non existant. our work scheduals make it difficult. he gets home at 7 we eat dinner and the baby and i are in bed at 8:30. we are also both to tired to even care about getting things going. it really sucks. believe me i know how you feel cuz i had this same thing happen with my boyfriend and i. i just started feeling so unwanted and so unattractive. i just have to make myself stop thinking about it. hang in there momma. i hope things get better for you
@mama_kay, when we have conversations in person he gets quiet an it's like he avoids the question an crap