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Alanis
Alanis
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I have an 8 month old son, my boyfriend and I have our own apartment. I lost my job and I've been looking for another…

I have an 8 month old son, my boyfriend and I have our own apartment. I lost my job and I've been looking for another one. We just found out I'm pregnant again, I'm about 12 weeks... He was excited at first and now he says one is hard enough and he can't do it. He's not ready. He told me to abort it but I can't. He said it's my choice and he didn't want to force me but he keeps telling me he doesn't want it. I can't get an abortion. I have depression and I know that will just make it worse. I haven't told my family I'm pregnant yet. I told his mom but she told her whole family and I thought she would keep it a secret so everyone's asking him about it and it makes him not want the baby even more. I don't know what to do anymore. I told him I would keep it, he doesn't have to claim them or be apart of their life. Is it wrong to keep it ? he doesn't even want to go through the adoption process. his mind is set.

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aidensmommy

AlanisМама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@hkatedavis I never said I wasn't ready. my boyfriend said he wasn't ready. adoption isn't an option because he wouldn't give up his rights. I'm keeping my baby. if he doesn't want it, I'm not forcing him to stay. I'm not giving it his last name. he doesn't even have to acknowledge my baby. he has every way out.

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hkatedavis

HannahМама сына-младенца, беременна (13 нед.)

If you decide your not ready adoption isn't a bad option.. there are lots of parents who want children. Don't let anyone make this decision for you. You have support from all the mommies on this app in whatever YOU decide. Every baby is a gift

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b3autifulm3ss

MichelleМама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

@aidensmommy your decision but most places wont do it after 12 weeks... you would have a hard tome finding somewhere legit to get it done it would look like a little human

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yesenia13

lluvia YeseniaМама троих детей

Dont let anybody make you do something you dont want; plus youre almost out of the first trimester! If you would abort it would be something you would have to live with the rest of your life. . .

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babynessa

DeannaМама дочки-младенца

Make your own decision because in the end you have to live with what you decide. If that's abortion, adoption or keeping your child. Make sure it's something you want and can live with. Jobs come and go and you'll find another. If he can't support your decision then he doesn't deserve you or your kids. Follow your heart and do what you want.

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_stephanie.g

StephanieМама троих детей

It's your decision.. and if he's going to be upset and if it does get to a point like how you said he doesn't have to claim them then that's someone you shouldn't be with.. good luck in whatever decision you make.

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nikilauren

NikiМама сына-младенца

Nope. It's your body, your decision and you know what's best for you. You'll find another job and once he hears that baby's heartbeat, he'll change his mind.

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Keep the baby or Abortion.......

Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(

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So torn so after BIG fight with bf he calls and is actually nice to me but I haven't made it clear to him that I'm…

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