I have an 8 month old son, my boyfriend and I have our own apartment. I lost my job and I've been looking for another one. We just found out I'm pregnant again, I'm about 12 weeks... He was excited at first and now he says one is hard enough and he can't do it. He's not ready. He told me to abort it but I can't. He said it's my choice and he didn't want to force me but he keeps telling me he doesn't want it. I can't get an abortion. I have depression and I know that will just make it worse. I haven't told my family I'm pregnant yet. I told his mom but she told her whole family and I thought she would keep it a secret so everyone's asking him about it and it makes him not want the baby even more. I don't know what to do anymore. I told him I would keep it, he doesn't have to claim them or be apart of their life. Is it wrong to keep it ? he doesn't even want to go through the adoption process. his mind is set.