I have an 8 month old son, my boyfriend and I have our own apartment. I lost my job and I've been looking for another one. We just found out I'm pregnant again, I'm about 12 weeks... He was excited at first and now he says one is hard enough and he can't do it. He's not ready. He told me to abort it but I can't. He said it's my choice and he didn't want to force me but he keeps telling me he doesn't want it. I can't get an abortion. I have depression and I know that will just make it worse. I haven't told my family I'm pregnant yet. I told his mom but she told her whole family and I thought she would keep it a secret so everyone's asking him about it and it makes him not want the baby even more. I don't know what to do anymore. I told him I would keep it, he doesn't have to claim them or be apart of their life. Is it wrong to keep it ? he doesn't even want to go through the adoption process. his mind is set.
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If you decide your not ready adoption isn't a bad option.. there are lots of parents who want children. Don't let anyone make this decision for you. You have support from all the mommies on this app in whatever YOU decide. Every baby is a gift
Dont let anybody make you do something you dont want; plus youre almost out of the first trimester! If you would abort it would be something you would have to live with the rest of your life. . .
Make your own decision because in the end you have to live with what you decide. If that's abortion, adoption or keeping your child. Make sure it's something you want and can live with. Jobs come and go and you'll find another. If he can't support your decision then he doesn't deserve you or your kids. Follow your heart and do what you want.
It's your decision.. and if he's going to be upset and if it does get to a point like how you said he doesn't have to claim them then that's someone you shouldn't be with.. good luck in whatever decision you make.
Nope. It's your body, your decision and you know what's best for you. You'll find another job and once he hears that baby's heartbeat, he'll change his mind.
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@hkatedavis I never said I wasn't ready. my boyfriend said he wasn't ready. adoption isn't an option because he wouldn't give up his rights. I'm keeping my baby. if he doesn't want it, I'm not forcing him to stay. I'm not giving it his last name. he doesn't even have to acknowledge my baby. he has every way out.