I agree with what @beebaby said. I'm going through the same with my son's father and decided to be the bigger person and see what he will actually do.

i definitely give props to all the moms out there❤👑

My sons father is as absent as one could be from my sons life but he acts like he's father of the year when he ain't shit to my son! I'm like you I wish I could just cut all ties I have no respect for him and find him disgusting in every way. But I still try to be fair even though he's not by how he treats my 4 month old. Makes me so mad! 😒