So I need some opinions and advice ladies .... before I had my son I was working and going back to school and Everything was fine ... after I had my son I worked for a year before everything went down hill ... Pain from my incision and bleeding etc and it stopped me from being able to keep a job and go to school becuase the pain is so critical ... anyway 3 years later I'm still dealing with the same thing but its worse and I want to go back to school again and work becuase only my fiance works but I can't ... what should I do ? I hate feeling like I do nothing with my life and have nothing going on but what can I do ?