Sooo I need to rant for a second..
I never wanted to be a stay at home mom. It was kind of forced on me by my bf and his mom. And not because I didn't want to stay at home with my son, that's probably the only good part.. and not having to wake up early lol. But it's mostly cuz I suck at being a housewife.. I hate frickin cleaning. And not like the daily straightening up and picking up my sons messes.. that doesn't bother me. It's the fact that my bf is a slob and expects me to pick up after him.. all the time!! He leaves his dirty dishes around.. he throws clothes everywhere so I never know what's clean. He stomps around in his nasty dirty boots so I'm constantly sweeping.. on top of having to do that crap all the time I'm trying to find new ways to play with my kid. I have severe anxiety so I've always kept to myself. I wasn't around kids when I was younger. I don't talk much to anyone so now I have to learn how to interact with this tiny human who can't tell me what he wants to do. It's not easy.. So by the end of the day I'm cranky. I don't want anymore interaction with humans and my bf doesn't get it. How is that so hard to understand? I'm not like him when he tries to parent.. I actually try to do something stimulating for our kid. I'm just so fed up with my bf general attitude towards me and what I do all day..
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I don't understand why "grown ass man" always end up being big Mommas boys, hell noooo first thing you need to do is to put a stop to his mom without being disrespectful cuz at the end of the day that's his moms, but I don't think she should be between ya I mean a relationship is a thing for 2 and let them both know that you are a mom and a wife not a F... maid.😒
@s.gratereaux, I've tried. It's gotten so bad that I've left him twice now over this shit. Then to make matters worse his mom gets in his head that I'm not doing enough cuz he's a slob and won't pick up after himself. And his messes are my Messes cuz "were a team"😡 I'm going to snap and end up in jail cuz of this bitch
Nobody seems to understand what a stay at home mom does all day specially our significant other, nobody seems to understand what having a toddler is and how many mental breakdowns we as moms have in just one day probably because we always make sure everything works perfectly around the house so they always thinking you have everything under control and that you are always fine. I think you should talk to your Bf about what's going thru your mind, how exhausted you are and that he should probably help you a little. Explain to him that just with putting the dirty clothes in one place and the clean one in another one he's helping you a lot.
Well he needs to be more respectful and understanding. there is a difference in keeping as house clean and someone just making work for you. that is childish. You can go to the library and find friends or the ymca and join a group for interaction with people. I was a stay at home mother for 3 years and I felt like I was gonna lose it so I understand but I wasn't a maid to an adult. only to the child
Men are so annoying when they leave their shit every where. Being a stay at home mom does not mean your a slave! They need to at least clean up after themselves