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Is it normal for me to not feel attractive to my man anymore? Last night he asked if we could have sex but we never did.…

Is it normal for me to not feel attractive to my man anymore? Last night he asked if we could have sex but we never did. Then tonight when I wanna try he doesn't and says it's too soon.. okay well we can be intimate in other ways but he don't do anything like that anymore.. he was on his damn phone and hardly heard me speaking to him. Idk I guess I'm just having another issue hit me tonight and I'm feeling all types of ways now 😞 he doesn't even tell me I did a good job delivering our baby or tells me I look good or anything.. I have to ask him if I look good or if I did good.. 😔

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myotherlastnameispratt

MelissaМама дочки-младенца

@babybunn, I'm sorry to hear that mama :(

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b3autifulm3ss

MichelleМама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)

@babybunn men are weird, my husband didnt want to for atleast 12 weeks after. Not because he wasnt attracted to me but because its a HUGE adjustment adding a baby to the mix... its very stressful and if you are stressed at all believe it or not they sense it... if you guys are open enough with eachother have a talk about it and let him know how it makes you feel... i had to literally tell my husband that i felt gross, unattractive, undesired, and i needed to feel wanted and intimate with him... after that everything mostly got back on track... goodluck momma

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babybunn

SaraМама дочки-младенца

@missliss, thank you that makes me feel better. I needed to hear that. I hope things get better soon. I've been having depression bad and being stressed and very emotional. :/

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myotherlastnameispratt

MelissaМама дочки-младенца

I'm sorry love. Don't worry, it tends to change. My husband and I didn't have sex for two months after my daughter was born. It just takes a little bit of time. You're both adjusting to having a baby, so moods tend to change. The fact that he asked you to have sex last night is a great start, just level with him and let him know how you feel. We literally had to force each other, and once we did, we started to get a little more back on track. Hang in there, you're gorgeous, I'm sure he knows how lucky he is @babybunn,

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