Why must men b such confusing people. My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years now our relationship is great our kids r happy and they r constantly our entire world but our teenage daughters have talked bout us getting married and he has always said no its not gonna happen I'm not doin it again...which ok whatever we don't need a piece of paper to prove how much we love each other. I do love him and don't plan on going anywhere he's stuck with me no matter what. Lately though he keeps showing me all these hoodies and things that r for married couples and then I guess he showed his daughter who lives with us a wedding set that he really likes which I do too cause the funny part is I showed it to him over a yr ago. I really wish he would just make up his mind or something. Or did something change in his head since having our son together...who knows guess we just wait and c what happens.