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Hannah Burden
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PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS GIVE ME YOURE A OpPiNNIONS!! WHERE TO BEGAN!!! I am so tired feeling like damn prob to my MIL I…

PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS GIVE ME YOURE A OpPiNNIONS!! WHERE TO BEGAN!!! I am so tired feeling like damn prob to my MIL I break things lot cause I'm clumsy and tonight I heard my MIL say to my BIL while they were trying to figure out what was wrong the dryer quit working right again because it sucld up the vent stuff I heard my BIL say to his mom tonight she has no respect for anything I heard my MIL say she always breaks it I'll have have youre dad look at it even when I do break things I don't mean to they make me feel so small I have never felt like family no matter what my husband our kids always get blamed for things like today first thing this morning there was kids last night with us all at house they were all playing up stares well they played in the american girl doll house things my husband Mom told her bio grand kid to have our kid clean it up because she was the one who played I'n it by her self when I know for sure she was not and my kids always get blames for things its like her bio grand kids don't do anything wrong even if do the getting in trouble lasts 5 minutes but if my kids do something all hell breaks loose we get a talking to of how we need get on to them more and desppline them more if don't they'll get out control which may be true bit her bio grand kids get way with so much shit while I heard what they said about how I always break things I heard i t through vent they don't know I heard them but I instantly cried because that's how they truly feel I feel so small now that I heard so someone plz tell me I'm not crazy or to emotional I want say something but can't because I know if I do they will want kick us out or try to say things like well if you don't like it then get out which they have said it to us when mad when our kids do break something or when we forget something important its like what ever we do Is not good enough and since we have lived with them we have given them our food stamp card let them get meals we don't get much of it and top that pay them 800 month for everything we give them the card so really we give them 200$ week in cash and last year we had two thousand in taxes his dad needed new tractor my husband bought new tractor with his dad for 2100$ they have teducked 600$ from rent here there but they still owe us $1500 if we say any thing they'll bring it up you live in our house we are doing you favor idk if that's true or not because I honestly feel like we getting taken advantage of I just can't say word because last time we did they basically threatend kick us was gonna make us go to homeless shelter with our children then course took these words back also they do so much more for there bio grand kids make us pay for almost every thing we owe back I'm starting see I feel I know we won't get that 1500$ back from them because if we ask I know they'll say some crazy crap I truly think we are being used for money plz oppinnions thoughts would be appreciated what it all sounds like to you

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jcandbabye

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girl I'd start saving so you and your husband can get out of there. Dont bank on getting your money back just start doing the best with what you can make save it up and get your own place. you can find apartments for less than 800 a month.

Need opinions. My bf and I are going to hawaii again this year and we wanted my bff and her boyfriend to come with us…

Need opinions. My bf and I are going to hawaii again this year and we wanted my bff and her boyfriend to come with us this time. We asked them a month before we booked it and she kept saying she wants to go and she just has to talk to her bf about it but he didn’t say no. she kept saying that. it came time to book the trip and we didn’t have an answer from them but my bf didn’t want them to lose the opportunity so he booked their trip for them and put insurance on it in case they decided against it. don’t get me wrong, I KNOW it was stupid of him to do that. I told him that almost immediately after him telling me he booked it. this was about 2 months ago. for 2 more months we kept getting the “yeah we wanna go but lemme see if we can figure it out”. then all is a sudden she says “it’s not really our type of vacation” which 1) blows my mind and 2) why not just say that from the start? if it’s not ur kind of vacation now then it wasn’t 2 months ago either. anyways, we tried to cancel to find out that the terms of insurance are crazy. basically the only way we can cancel is if one of them were to pass away, get hurt, or lose their job. about 2 weeks ago my bff actually broke her foot. which is the perfect out for us to be able to cancel their trip and get $2,000 back. my bf told her to just ask the dr for a note. she went to the dr yesterday and texted us saying “dr said no note” now we could be wrong, but we both immediately thought she didn’t even ask for one. and I wouldn’t put it past her to be uncomfortable asking for a dr note and just not even do it cuz it’s not her problem. now we are out $2,000 at the same time that we’re selling our home and buying a new one and like I said, yeah he shouldn’t have booked the trip for them, but to go from “yeah we want to go” to “it’s not our type of vacation” seems like she just led us on. and now she’s saying they wouldn’t even want to go if it was free. like 1) who says that? and 2) then why did you say you wanted to go from the start? and now she seems like she’s annoyed with us. she hasn’t responded to us and I haven’t talked to her at all since which isn’t common. Would you be annoyed if you were us? that they couldn’t just be honest from the start? also anyone have experience with canceling trips with crazy insurance policies?