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Christa Moore
Christa Moore
Мама троих детей

Need to vent so please bear with me because it's a kind of long post.Spending the next three days alone with my kids 24/7, since my soon to be ex says he needs a break from me and our kids he's going to his grandpa's house, which is code for get high and drink without having to deal with our kids. I asked about getting me time soon and was told I get me time every day since I'm a stay at home mom. That's rich, I've constantly got little kids crawling all over, crying or needing something. I love my kids so much but not having a break from them is wearing me out. Between this whole mess of a marriage, my mom's brain surgery and her cancer, I could use some quiet time,but I'll never get it. Honestly wish he'd wake up and realize that I have full time job with long hours zero pay that's 24/7 365.

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christamoore2012

Christa MooreМама троих детей

I'm starting to hate him, and that's horrible thing to say. @goodbyelullabye

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goodbyelullabye

R.

@christamoore2012 mine does that too 😕

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christamoore2012

Christa MooreМама троих детей

Dang girl, honestly he won't agree with it just to spite me. I swear he does this crap just to get a reaction out of me and it's severely pissing me off. @goodbyelullabye

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goodbyelullabye

R.

we almost had to be separated for a year if he didn't agree to irreconcilable differences. thank God he did

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christamoore2012

Christa MooreМама троих детей

Only one of mine is old enough for school @shateira.davis and our pediatrician doesn't think he is ready emotionally to go. Exactly @goodbyelullabye, unfortunately our crap just started, and we have to be legally separated for 6 months before we can move ahead with our divorce. Just got the paperwork for the separation last week right before my mom got sent to the hospital and I've put it off until she got a little better.

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goodbyelullabye

R.

don't you just love the ex? they get to come and go as they please and they still think they are the world's greatest daddies. I know my finalized divorce was the best part of my marriage lol. hopefully yours won't be much longer

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shateira.davis

MelaninqueenМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

omg smh very valid point to make , and thats so sad well they all seem to be old enough for school if that can possibly be an option gives you time to unwind and gather your thoughts . im sorry you have to deal w. this. i'll pray over your family tonight for the best for you and your babies and for his patience to get better when it comes to the babies and you.

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christamoore2012

Christa MooreМама троих детей

It's alright I'd prefer bluntness to someone not saying it to my face. I would but he keeps track of all my movements and how much gas and money I spend. Once we get taxes back he's suppose to move out and in with his grandfather. He is childish and lazy. I've left them with him before and all he does is scream and yell and blow my phone up til I come back. I'm afraid to leave them with him alone for to long because he gets so frustrated so easily that I'm afraid he'll snap and hurt them. I was gone for an hour the other day and he was so upset the entire time he blew my phone up because he didn't have cigarettes and I had better get them here asap before one of my kids gets hurt. Like I said can't wait til this divorce is over with. @shateira.davis

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shateira.davis

MelaninqueenМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

he'll so realize how much you do once you stop dealing w. his laziness and irresponsibility cause that's all it sounds like to me to be honest momma bears need breaks to sorry to put it like this but maybe you need to leave the kids w. him w.o him knowing you going out for a hour or two .

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