leave his ass think about you an your bby

@odalys thanks 🙃 you guys really made this dark situation a tad bit brighter

exactly. well now just think about having the baby and how happy you'll be. if you dont want the abortion then dont even fix your head to think about it cause thats out of the question

@odalys im trying not to i feel as if i was to get an abortion all im doing reacting off of someone elses feelings ect knowing that i shouldnt do it .

dont get too stressed about it

thats what I was going to do just leave him but he changed his mind 😀

@odalys i swear its like you read my mind seriously i feel like he cant except it i should just carry on w. or w.o him either way .

I had this problem my bf and I were going through somethings, he would talk to others on fb, etc we found out i was preg. i cried i didnt want another i just had my daughter, he didnt seem upset til i started to talk about abortion he agreed but i spoke to my dad and he said to try and work things out if not he would helo me financially with w.e i dont really believe in abortion my dad doesnt either so i decided to keep it. I am now 5months i was like 2months when i found out,my bf is totally fine and now he asks all the time about the baby back then he wouldnt date bring it up hes even thinking of names... POINT IS DO WHAT YOU WANT, IF HIS MIND DOESNT CHANGE BEFORE BABY GETS HERE THEN IM SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO

yeah i totally understand it's a hard sistuation to be in. pregnancies usually tear a relationship apart or bring it closer together . just by you being pregnant now & him showing you the attention he's showing, it kinda shows alot. but then again he could just be shocked and not know what to do. im sorry your in this position i really hope things work out in your favor.

@b3autymarkk23 thank you for your realistic point and reasoning honestly i feel as if i keep the baby everything on my behalf will be fine i dont too much question myself its him that i question and it makes me uncomfortable being left in a situation like this .

if you want to have your baby then go for it. from my experience even tho my bf was excited for the baby, even if he wasn't i was still going to have my baby and make a way. its life changing and unbelievably amazing! if your questioning it then u really have to sit Nd think long & hard about your decision. your boyfriend is probally just scared at the moment & probally talking / acting out of fear. some men process things differently. but follow your heart whatever choice you make will be the best choice for you! :) good luck!

@courtt right !

@b3autymarkk23 he has become distant always using work as an excuse so honestly there isnt much to discuss its been two weeks almost since i've told him and im left w. no answers from him honestly i spoke to him only 3 times since and havent seen him thats why im asking for opinions not really looking for anyone to make the choice for me but i do solely understand what you mean.

i think thats a very personal subject that should be between you and your significant other! don't let other people make that choice for you. its mainly about what you want.

@missjess thanks im really thinking that anyway cause honestly i dont want to go into the new year having an abortion starting off my year neither

Don't give up your child because someone doesn't have the balls to grow up and be a father

@courtt thanks lols i didnt know but thats really how i feel .

My ex was the same way. But he never flat out told me to get an abortion but I told him that wasn't an option! I'd keep the baby! I don't have a job right now but my baby still gets everything he needs. Screw the father you'll do just fine without him just make sure to file for child support and if you find its to much for you then adoption is a wonderful option!

@bentlysmomma thats how i feel i already have two children and i didnt do that to them im stable enough to take care of three but im just bewildered about the situation i was put in even after he said he wouldnt use a condom with me after i asked smh

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God blessed you with that baby for a reason. Listen to your heart don't let any man tell you to abort your child if he doesn't want to man up and be a father then that's his loss. Praying for you

and jannibel97 yeah i hear you thats what i was thinking really but he already told me because i said i wanted to keep it that his opinion wouldnt matter idk cause im bussing my balls over here smh i feel stuck cause i havent told anyone but him and now you guys i mean not even my family know so idk who to turn to about this in all seriousness .

I personally am against abortion. But everyone has an opinion.
My opinion is that it would be selfish to kill an unborn baby just to stay with someone who doesn't seem to love you as much as you think. I would leave him and keep the baby and do what you can to make the best life you can for that baby. But it's all your choice. You need to think about what you want to do. I just don't think it's worth staying with him for if he can put you in that position

see jsco we both are financially stable and im actually in the middle of moving into a bigger home he has two jobs it sounds like an excuse maybe he's scared who knows but to be as far as me i wouldn't want to do it cause the baby heart is beating at this point i mean i dont want to loose a life because someone isnt grown enough to own up to their doings .

I agree with @jsco. It's really up to you. You have to weight out the pros and the cons.

I don't think anyone can answer that question but you. that's a very personal choice that you need to make based on where you are in your own life.

if i were yuh i would keep it hun but its yur choice go with what yuh want if he loves yuh he would sopport yur decision it was the same with me an my fiance when i was pregnant with both of my kids he wanted me 2 get an abortion because we was still living with his mom and he was working 2 jobs also but he sopported my dicision i kept both of my kids even tho we knew it was going 2 be hard