Reading this post & the comments underneath gives me reassurance it will kick in. I'm excited but does not feel real, don't feel that motherly connection yet either gf. My fiance just spoke about names today & it was the 1st thing that gave it a bit of reality. 17 wks. Think one I know gender & see next sonogram it will be more real where u visually see the baby not just as a little bean.

I didn't feel any connections with my son at all literally until he was born .. even when I was pushing him out.. everyone was happy accept me.. but he's here and the moment they look at u it's love at first sight believe it or not.. if u need anyone to talk to u are more then welcome to message me... u have a blessing in u and ur life is only beginning

I felt the same way when I was pregnant u are not alone it will pass I promise u . This was my first baby .. now that my son is a week old I'm beyond happy . Believe it or not everything falls into place I'm not going to lie to u but it's hard esp the first and second trimester with emotions on high. No one or myself pictured me being a mom lol but I am and it's the best thing ever . If I can do it u can to .. ❤

Your stronger than you think you are ☺️

thank you so much @kateyez5

I was very scared it wouldn't change for me either but it did. If you. Believe pray.. I did every day

I am not with the baby's father and I don't want kids but I am carrying through the pregnancy and I've been so depressed and I am so unattached to being pregnant and I am scared that it won't change. @kateyez5

I'm expecting a 5th child who wasn't planned was conceived because my birth control failed and whose father I'm no longer with. I fell into a severe depression because I didn't want anymore children I didn't feel any attachment to the baby I'm carrying but I don't believe in abortion I felt trapped but now at almost 30 weeks I'm growing attached to the little one inside me.