my guy is a good guy and our son is now almost 4.5 months old. however sometimes we have issues. his trust issues resurface and he starts saying I'm backstabbing him when he sees me on my phone. for the record I've never cheated on him he just has a lot of trust issues with most people . he gets better then he gets worse and I won't lie I'm sick of it so I snap and yell because it's Bullshit. I get mean and throw shit too bc he gets mad that I'm mad or antagonizes me. it's unhealthy and I know it's not right on either of our parts. I suggested counseling for us but he said no.