I NEED ADVICE SO BAD. (I had twins and I'm still fairly insecure about my body) I'm not usually the possessive, jealous type and I never pictured myself going through my husband's phone, but... Recently I have been noticing him getting messages from other females, I'm not usually able to catch what the messages say, but I can name the girls he's talking to. I've caught him getting a message if he forgets his phone when he's going to the bathroom, if I get on it to research something, or even if I'm sitting next to him. I don't usually say anything because I don't want to seem "jealous" or "crazy," so I try to see what the messages say after he goes to sleep, so that way I can avoid confrontation, but every time I look, the messages are deleted! THEY ARE ALWAYS GONE. What can I do without him knowing I go through his phone? What can I say without sounding insane? Please HELP
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Ditto to all of that. If they are deleted they are obviously hidden from you . What an ass.
Just Confront Him & Ask Who Are They And Why Are They Texting His Phone? And If He Say Its 'Nobody' Then Be Like Well How Come You're Always Deleting The Messages Then?? If He Still Can't Answer You Or Be Honest Then Call Them Girls Yoself And Ask Why Tf They're Calling Them. If My Man Was Doin That I Woulda Looked Through The Messages And See If I Find Something I Don't Like. He Shouldn't Be Texting No Other Females In The First Place
Well unfortunately I have been there and I hate seeing other women to through it too
@princesslina Thank you so much for the advice. You're right it has really taken a toll on my self esteem, and I needed to talk about it with someone.
Say why are you texting girls then when I go to check the messages are deleted. And if you don't tell me the truth I'll pull up our phone records and call these numbers myself. That's what I would do but I'm crazy... Lol seriously though just let him know you know. Drop hints like who is Samantha or kayla or whatever their names are and see his reaction. And just play it cool until you have concrete evidence that you can put in his face. Trust me girl he will make you feel dumb if you have nothing concrete on him. Once you have messages and proof to be like WTF IS THIS CRAP then he'll have to fess up. Other than that he'll try to make you look like you're the crazy one. I'm sorry you're going through this it really does suck and take a toll on your self Esteem
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