as i thought before he was even born. ..i didnt have that bond with him when he was born..a week passed and still .nothing. but now that ive spent 2 weeks with him..all of a sudden today i felt love towards him i saw him and told him im sorry and that i DO love him..i kissed his little face and just held him..unlike before all i did was feed him and make sure his diaper was clean and he was warm and all needs and wants were met..now i actually WANT to hold him amd kiss him and i just look at him and feel love..i was pumping and bottle feeding..but today we nurse..idk what happened but im glad it did