How do I tell my mil I do not want her staying with us once I have this baby? Or that I really don't want her there for the birth? Her and I aren't on the greatest of terms and the whole pregnancy she's constantly doubting how I feel and also kept telling me I was lying that we weren't having a girl because their family "only" have boys...
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I wouldn't give her any more attention. She's obviously set in her ways. Just know everyone is on your side in that delivery room. Be vocal on your opinions and feelings. They won't allow her in if you say no.
Good luck mama!
She lives in another state but I was just told she will be coming like a week before my due date and then she made a comment that she will be here after to take care of the baby. If my husband says something it still comes from me. Her and I have gotten into so bad before I had nothing to do with her for almost a year and my husband didn't either even though I told him I didn't care I just didn't want to see her or be near her but he could and he chose not to and her words to him after the fight was "I can't believe you didn't stand up for me to her" so I think no matter who talks to her it will be ww3 @autumnsmomma125, @brownsugarluv,
I would get your hubby to talk to her unless that'd make it worse. I know my hubby would tell his mom straight up lol
I'd sit her down and let her know straight away. It will save you drama later. Add to your birth plan who want to be there.
Oh ok I'm sorry.. if you flat out don't want her there maybe you need to just tell her over the phone before she gets there so she can make other reservations or decide not to come at all and that way it's not face to face while your so pregnant?