when you basically gotta be a single mom because your husband is too lazy to get an apartment and rather live in his…
when you basically gotta be a single mom because your husband is too lazy to get an apartment and rather live in his parents living room for God knows how long. never thought I'd be in this situation. it's just me and my babies now. I can't depend on him for no help. he's too lazy
Kedra·
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My bf is super lazy. He barely does anything unless he's forced or it's a last resort. He's also cheap lol
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@kedrababy my hubs is the same except at this point I'm done. we git evicted, been living home to hone, at the mercy of other people, nearly spent nights on the street but he won't even look for a apartment because he doesn't want to pay for it.
Kedra·
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@rosiel49, well if it was that serious he probably needs to get a lil fire under his butt. But our parents are so comfortable with us living with them and it's cheap so he's in no hurry. TBH I'm not either lol but we DO need the help it's our first baby
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@kedrababy that's the thing we're having our second. we've been getting help both emotionally and financially from our parents for 3 years now. they're sick of paying for everything. I don't blame them to be honest.ive threatened to leave him and he told me to leave and find a better man, I've threatened so much and he's done nothing
Kedra·
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@rosiel49, Damn. Does he really want u to find someone better or was he just angry?
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
no clue. he says it when upset but it's usually him being hurt not angry. I just want him to start moving. im 8 months pregnant running around with a autistic 2 year old on my own trying to get an apartment and help while he's at home because he's "tired". like I'm fucking tired too :(
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@kedrababy ^^
Kedra·
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@rosiel49, I would say don't give up since y'all are married. Does he have trouble keeping a job or something?
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@kedrababy sort of. every boss he's ever had has said he's lazy, doesn't try to work his way up, doesn't cater to costumers or anyone's needs unless asked and demanded. he just sort of stands around until told what to do.
Rosie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
mind you I didn't know this till a year after we got married. he also hides money. like as soon as he gets paid he tells me there is no money. like where is the money going. ugh I'm so done. I don't want to give up but I have a child with special needs that needs services and love and living on the streets ain't it