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Emilie Belmont
Emilie Belmont
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so I was thinking of adopting a baby in the future . I was wondering how long and about how much would it cost to adopt…

so I was thinking of adopting a baby in the future . I was wondering how long and about how much would it cost to adopt .

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jessyleigh

Jessica

Мама сына (1 год)

It's usually cheaper if you go from foster to adopt than it is to adopt. But ik we have adopted in our family and one child took three years and we didn't get to pick the child. They chose for them and the next because she was "special needs" we got her in 6 months. This was from China. And then I have a cousin who has been trying to adopt for 6 years now and they both have spent over 30,000. I heard of you go threw foster then adopt it's about 2,000. We are doing the foster and possible adopting depending on the agency goal with the child

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Jenny

Мама дочки-младенца

Adoption is usually pretty expensive depending on the agency you go through, also can depend on the age of the child you're adopting. The process is very in depth as well. We have servers family friends that adopted kids and it was quite a lengthy ordeal, but they couldn't be happier now.

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Sara

Мама двоих (3 года, 9 лет)

i think it depends on your situation. my husband and I been thinking about too

So as you know, we're on the path of adoption and I found this woman online in a pretty popular pregnancy forum. She…

So as you know, we're on the path of adoption and I found this woman online in a pretty popular pregnancy forum. She made a post about possibly giving her twins for adoption and after talking it over with my significant other, we decided there would be no harm in emailing her. I'll post her response in the comments but please tell me, is this how it normally is or is this person possibly using others for gain?

How Can I Be Sure About Adoption?

Being completely honest i think about adoption all thw time. im not 100% sure on adoption but im just tired of being his primary care giver its alot of stress on me not sleeping and everything my bf is ok with adoption and im open to it but I havent even discussed it with my family noone would try stop it though, it would hurt my parents and theyd be disappointed but theyd respect my decision. Im torn on what to do cause i want a better life for him but like how can one be 100% sure before you do it? like what if i put him up for adoption and i regret it and then the decision is irreversible legally i have no righst. But the only wsy to know is to go through with it! I don't know anyone whos given a kid up for adoption so i have noone to really speak to about it whos been through it. My ideal situation would be like if i could see him like once a week i still want to be in his life but as you said it wouldn't be that often even with an open adoption like its all or nothing i care for him everyday or im barely a part of his life i wish there was an option where i could see him like a couple times a month but theres not so idk what to do..