someone told me I'm wrong for not celebrating Christmas....but its not that I don't celebrate it I just don't do the…
someone told me I'm wrong for not celebrating Christmas....but its not that I don't celebrate it I just don't do the Santa thing.... I don't feel the need to give him gifts on one day when he gets things randomly all year long....I know its meant to be fun for the kids thinking they came from Santa and all the magic but I remember being hurt when I found out Santa wasn't real.....I don't want to see the sad look on my son's face when someone spoils his child hood for him.....am I wrong?
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Not wrong but kids need to use imagination and have that some things are made for entertainment not spite. The lie is used to bring happiness. You don't have to celebrate Santa on Christmas.
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I wasn't hurt when I found out they weren't real and my kids love the idea of it. I just let them know it's a story that was made up by someone and we pretend it's real
Tatiana·
Мама сына (3 года)
yea I could try that thanks @beebaby
Strawder Badd·
Мама сына (1 год)
@workingon2 I buy my son stuff year around but I am still doing Christmas. It is just something fun .
Tatiana·
Мама сына (3 года)
yea we will see.... he still young so we have time to decide thanks @quansmommyy
Elizabeth ·
Мама сына (3 года)
The truth is is the "St. Nickolas" is actually a real person. He was a man in the 1600s or so that would give Christmas gifts, for Christmas to the poor children in his village. It stems from religious beliefs. However, you don't have to make it about that. It can be about bringing happiness and joy to your children and teaching them do do the same for others less fortunate then yourself. Just my opinion.