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Tatiana
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someone told me I'm wrong for not celebrating Christmas....but its not that I don't celebrate it I just don't do the…

someone told me I'm wrong for not celebrating Christmas....but its not that I don't celebrate it I just don't do the Santa thing.... I don't feel the need to give him gifts on one day when he gets things randomly all year long....I know its meant to be fun for the kids thinking they came from Santa and all the magic but I remember being hurt when I found out Santa wasn't real.....I don't want to see the sad look on my son's face when someone spoils his child hood for him.....am I wrong?

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Not wrong but kids need to use imagination and have that some things are made for entertainment not spite. The lie is used to bring happiness. You don't have to celebrate Santa on Christmas.

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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I wasn't hurt when I found out they weren't real and my kids love the idea of it. I just let them know it's a story that was made up by someone and we pretend it's real

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workingon2

Tatiana

Мама сына (3 года)

yea I could try that thanks @beebaby

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quanandmelosmommyyy

Strawder Badd

Мама сына (1 год)

@workingon2 I buy my son stuff year around but I am still doing Christmas. It is just something fun .

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workingon2

Tatiana

Мама сына (3 года)

yea we will see.... he still young so we have time to decide thanks @quansmommyy

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hfarb17

Elizabeth

Мама сына (3 года)

The truth is is the "St. Nickolas" is actually a real person. He was a man in the 1600s or so that would give Christmas gifts, for Christmas to the poor children in his village. It stems from religious beliefs. However, you don't have to make it about that. It can be about bringing happiness and joy to your children and teaching them do do the same for others less fortunate then yourself. Just my opinion.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?