Based on a heated discussion on somebody else's post... Ladies which do you prefer?

1. Legitimate Job or sometimes working 2 jobs, spends every spare minute with his kids, is very active in their lives (education, sports, extra curricular activities). Helps pay your bills, buys your kids whatever they need. Buys extra or takes you and the kids out whenever he has extra money, but is slightly behind on child support and sometimes you have to help him out.

2. Filthy RICH, But no real job. (He's a hustler)

NEVER see's the kids, and won't even call to check on them. Never pays child support, but sends expensive gifts for Christmas and birthdays. Will be the first to buy your kids the new Jordan's, but your kids won't know him.