Im so irritated. Lately my sons father has been pushing to have our 4 year old live with him because he just prefers to be there in general but i just don't want my son away from me. we have 50/50 custody and he spends half the week here and half the week there (he would be in school but theres no head start programs around me) I just want to know what you guys would do in my situation because this subject gets brought up to me atleast once a month. and it would be different if my ex didnt live with his grandparents.