Do you ever confuse being a mom being a wife? I feel like I'm losing being a wife and a woman.
Warning : TMI me and my husband have been married for almost 2 years now and I have yet to orgasm. I'm beginning to learn that I am struggling with some psychological barriers. I'm feeling like I don't deserve to orgasm. I love sex, I just don't feel like I deserve that joy. I am LDS and I know that sex is ordained of God that it is Holy, in that we are meant to have joy, in the we are meant to enjoy sex. I just find it hard to truly and deeply believe that I personally am meant to have that kind of joy. I just needed to get this out there and see if maybe anyone could help me find ways to change the belief I have that I am not worth it.
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@labunni I am anxious/worried about nearly every thing my husband says I need to stop worrying and let go and just go with the flow. I don't drink though.
@mommy.to.sterling I try to let go and just enjoy how it feels but I think I'm focusing so much it backfires
@labunni I know a good part of the problem is me. when ever we have sex I usually want him inside me right away instead of waiting til I get close to orgasm. I'm really impatient for some reason. I'm the one who doesn't let him finger me. and I'm bad at telling him what works and what doesn't.
@kambam thank you so much for your comment. part of the reason I'm reaching out for help is I know my sweet husband feels bad he can't get me to orgasm.
if you feel you can't be blunt in the comments please chat me.
No worries :-) being direct helps. I haven't figured out how to successfully do that. even then I'd rather not because I used to have an addiction to masturbating. I've been able to overcome it and get my temple recommend back.
@mommy.to.sterling I've been able to get myself to orgasm and my husband once got me really close but I have a hard time being patient and let him help me. I struggle to communicate effectively how to help me. and because of past issues I avoid masturbating.
life is very short. you deserve to feel good and also your husband would love to see you have that joy. not only is orgasm fun and good for you but its also like a little gift for your partner 💑
I know what I need to do it's hard to just do it though, it's really hard to let go