Come the next time around, I will start my appointments early, research the obs, go to a different hospital for sure,…

That's what I believe as well. I also looked at reviews( I know those aren't always good to go by for anything.) But I just read about 3 different stories where the hospital didn't do everything they were supposed to, nobody explained anything either. Those women didn't lose their babies tho, thank god. I definitely wouldn't want this for another soul. I'm glad my Caroline was the chosen one that day. Because I'm a lot stronger than some other women and I rather it be me than someone without the support I have. Plus, that same night my mom's coworker's daughter was giving birth. I don't agree that my baby had to be taken because I really do think she was supposed to be here. But at least they didn't mess up on someone else.

Yea. The doctor waited until the end of our visit. It was the day I got my staples removed. He just randomly asked if I drank. I was like yea water? Then he said no, no alcohol, before you went to the hospital. I said no and was so confused. then while we were trying to ask questions on how that'd show up, he changed the conversation and then left. The worst part to all of it was he was calling Caroline an "It." I almost flipped out and I really wanted to tell him "She has a fucking name." But I didn't. She was born 41 weeks, there is no "it". I really hate the fact I didn't look into a bunch of doctors, but of course I did things late and they were the first to accept me.

Yes of course. Stay positive. And she'll always be watching after you! Look for a negligence/malpractice atty. it's not fair how they tried to put the blame on you. That pisses me off

We are. Just have to find a good one. It's probably the worst feeling I'll ever feel. But now I've lived my worst day so hopefully I'll only have good ones after this

My heart breaks every time I read you're in pain 😢 I couldn't imagine going through this but I honestly feel your pain. I want to cry every time I read about your story. But have you looked into an attorney hun? This was definitely malpractice.

Well I started going to appointments at 22 weeks. But I was perfectly fine as my little Caroline. We were both fine the entire time of pregnancy and when we arrived to the hospital. I was in early labor and was suppose to be induced the next day. Well from what I'm seeing in the records I have currently, they didn't monitor my heartbeat for 30 minutes, meaning my daughter's wasn't being measured either. The amount of time, I still won't know until I receive her records. She has no oxygen for 10 minutes inside of me and for another 17 outside of me. So she was technically born stillborn but no. The doctors just had to revive her. So I had to have the choice to take her off life support which basically was her body since she wasn't actually in there, no brain activity at all. Then they didn't give me any details to what had happened. Then just recently I was told some and also asked if I drank prior to going into the hospital. Because apparently losing my baby wasn't hard enough, so trying to put the blame on me was alright. I feel like there is so much I'm not aware of and clearly they made a mistake.

yeah same here if your up to sharing. if not its okay