Hate being guilt-ripped it never works😂

My daughters dad has never been in her life he picks and chooses when he wants to try make the effort. He wants to take her out he hasn't seen her in 3 years I simply said no thank you. My partner has raised her since day one I did ask her if she wants to see him she said no. I don't understand how his brain works he sees his other kids but not mine😡 she's not missing out on anything and she don't need anything from him he's also refusing to give up his parental rights😑