Как защитить ребенка от опасных ситуаций в семье?

I'm upset from earlier today. Gianni's father has the worlds stupidest family. Some times I'm so surprised by how dumb they are. And Gianni's father doesn't have the back bone to say anything to them. But I'm getting to the point where I don't care if I'm the bad guy.

Earlier today Gianni was being held by his abuela and she went over and picked up this dirty lake turtle. While holding my son. So I took him away from her. This idiot would've let my son touch this turtle that who even knows if he has diseases. And then she tried to take him from me so I turned my back on her and told them "that turtle is dirty and from a lake. Gianni is not being by it. Wash your hands". She looked all surprised and smelled her hands like as if they're clean. I don't care. When I was a child I got bit by an iguana and spent 11 days in ICU with a fever of 107. I almost died. If my son gets sick/hurt none of these idiots are going to be the one caring for him. I am! So wash your nasty hands and stop putting my child in danger. I'm not related to any of you. I don't personally like you. I will gladly never see you again 😡. She also always wants to be seeing these nasty dirty goats that Gianni's uncle has. They are covered by bugs and fleas. That is also coming to an end. I tell Gianni's dad to tell her no and that there are fleas and I don't want our son bit up. He just says "shut up" to me. Well, I'm going to take him away from her every time. These people are going to learn the hard way I'm not playing nice anymore.

They bought my son a motorized girly car for Christmas and saying "oh he can ride over everything here" blah blah blah. Yeah over my dead body am I putting my 14 month old son in a motorized car. The toy clearly says 3 and up 😡. My dad bought my son a push bike and Gianni's dad said "Gianni will need a helmet or he can't ride it" yet there's no problem putting him in a motorized car with no helmet all by himself 😒. Go f yourself. I told him to tell them no and have them return it. He won't because that's "embarrassing" not as embarrassing as when they give him it on Christmas Eve and I tell them he's not riding it because he's too little. That damn car is a waste of $200. Between Gianni's uncle and his girlfriend they have 3 children. How the hell don't you know an appropriate present for a one year old!!!!????!!